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Writer's pictureMichelle Barsky

How to Navigate Holiday Depression with Self-Compassion


The holiday season is upon us, and while it’s often dubbed as the “most wonderful time of the year,” it can also exacerbate existing mental health issues like depression.


Between shopping for the perfect gifts, attending festive gatherings, and navigating family dynamics, it’s easy to find yourself running on empty. This year, let’s prioritize our mental well-being and make self-care a non-negotiable part of the holiday hustle.


Here are some actionable and specific tips to help you practice self-care when dealing with holiday depression.


Limit Time with Technology


As the holiday season approaches, it’s common to be overwhelmed with social media posts and messages from friends and family. While it’s great to stay connected, the constant digital bombardment can contribute to depression through comparison and overstimulation.


Designate specific times to check your phone or social media and consider implementing a tech-free zone during family gatherings to focus on your time with loved ones.


Mindful Eating During Celebrations


The holidays often revolve around delicious meals and treats. Instead of guilting yourself over food, practice mindful eating and give yourself grace.


Savor each bite, paying attention to flavors and textures. Listen to your body’s hunger and fullness cues. By being present during meals and enjoying your favorite foods, you not only nourish your body but also cultivate a positive relationship with food, fostering a healthier mindset during the holiday season.


Schedule “Me Time” on Your Calendar


With the flurry of holiday obligations, it’s crucial to carve out dedicated time for yourself. Block off periods in your calendar for activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it’s reading a book, catching up on your favorite TV show, or practicing meditation, scheduling “me time” ensures that you prioritize self-care amidst the festive chaos.


Express Gratitude Through Journaling


Amidst the hustle and bustle, take a moment each day to reflect on the positive aspects of your life. Start a gratitude journal where you jot down things you’re thankful for. You can include small things like enjoying a warm cookie on your couch and big things like showing gratitude for your family’s health this year.


Research shows that focusing on gratitude helps shift your mindset toward positivity and can ease the symptoms of depression.


Create a Cozy Sanctuary


When people struggle with depression, their home usually shows it. Apathy, exhaustion, and low motivation make it difficult to keep up with household chores. However, transforming your living space into a haven of tranquility could encourage you to keep it clean since it will be somewhere that you want to spend time.


Light some candles, play soothing music, and surround yourself with comforting textures. Having a sanctuary provides a retreat from the holiday chaos where you can recharge your mind and body.


Work Your Body in Ways You Enjoy


Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. Find a physical activity that brings you joy, whether it’s dancing to your favorite tunes, going for a nature hike, or practicing yoga. Physical activity releases endorphins, reducing stress and boosting your mood. This helps reduce the effects of depression on your body!


Practice Saying “No” Without Guilt


It’s okay to decline invitations or requests that feel overwhelming. Politely but firmly say “no” when necessary, and release any guilt associated with it. Your mental well-being is a priority, and setting boundaries is a crucial aspect of self-care during the holidays.


During the holidays this year, remember that taking care of yourself is not a luxury but a necessity. By incorporating these actionable practices into your routine, you’ll be better equipped to navigate your depression this season.


If you desire personalized assistance from a mental health professional, reach out to my office for help. Here’s to a season of self-love, well-being, and meaningful connections. Happy holidays!


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